• Fiki Naki: Autodidact Learning of Five Foreign Languages

    Fiki Naki: Autodidact Learning of Five Foreign Languages

    In an interview with Tanoto Foundation Talkshow host Rachel Amanda, famous YouTuber Fiki Naki shared his experience in mastering five foreign languages autodidact, that enables him to communicate and befriended with young people from many parts of the world.

    He said he was grateful to his parents who allowed him to choose his own life path although initially they also worried about his choice to learn languages through self-learning process. They become more confident with him, because his new fame also means he can generate wealthy income from his social media activity.

    Fiki who will turn 23 years old in next July 24, now can fluently speak in English, Romanian, Russia, Mandarin and German. And he hopes that in 2024 he will be able to use 10 foreign languages in daily conversations.

    He learned the languages by watching movies in Netflix, and YouTube with subtitles in foreign languages. “I repeatedly practiced what I heard until I could speak the language like a native speaker,” said the Fiki who went to the university to study informatic engineering for two years just to please his parents.

    “When I took one gap year, my parents worried, because I spent most of my time in my room. I feel pity with my parents. Then I went to university. I just followed my friend who studied informatic engineering,” said Fiki.

    “But I could stand only for two years because it was not my dream. I decided to focus on language, because I love it so much,” the YouTuber continued his explanation.

    When asked about the secret of his success in mastering the languages, he replied that strong determination and self-discipline are among the keys to learn foreign languages through self-learning process.  He said he studied at least six hours daily. But he also acknowledged that he did not like book as he preferred visual.

    “Learning foreign languages autodidact or self-learning is not easy at all.  First you must be consistent. Second you must have many methods to learn because it is easy to be bored. Then third you must have friends. It is very sad when you are alone,” said Fiki who was born in Pekalongan, a Batik producing city in Central Java.

    “I love to learn new things, singing, beat box, when I was at SMP and SMA. I learned skateboard, juggling. I learned from Shelma an American YouTuber, who is a very fluent Chinese Mandarin speaker. Then I tried to learn language,” Fiki answered when asked about his journey to learn foreign languages.

    Romanian language was his second foreign language after English after he met with a Romanian friend through OME TV channel.

    If you love spontaneous online meetings with strangers, OmeTV chat is here for you. You will meet a wide variety of cool personalities from around the world, Fiki explained.

    “I went to Romania some time ago and stayed with my friends. I have great experience. For instance, in Indonesia it is taboo to use left hand unless we cannot use my right hands because we hold somethings. They were amazed with my explanation,” he said.

    Fiki recently found a Spanish friend when he used Vlog. Fiki followed his new friend, who used subtitle in English vice versa. Then he opened vocabulary to understand better. he noted words which he did not understand.

    “We played games together, Siesgo and Minecraft, and I learned Spanish from him in the same time. Improving my language and playing games in the same time,” Fiki added.

    Why using vlog? “Because my purpose to learn language is to reach a level of ability like the native speakers in their daily conversations. I want informal level, not formal,” Fiki noted.

    Fiki started to create contents after he uploaded the video of his conversations with his foreign friends. “I felt surprised and excited to see the public reactions,” he added.

    What is his next plan? “Now I am excited with architecture. When I saw buildings, it looks amazing. I got information there was a university in Turkey which solely focuses on architecture.”

    Does he set own target or goal? He said This is his shortcomings. He is a spontaneous man. Today is today. He never prepares for the next five years for instance.

    Does he have any plan to create more video contents? He said he is still producing new contents,

    What is his next plan? “I will stay in several countries three months each. For instance, I will live in Spain, and will share my experience during my stay there. I can communicate with local YouTubers. I also can introduce Indonesian culture.”

    Fiki laughed when he shared his conversations with Indonesians friends about their motive to be active in OMETV. “They want to have a foreign wife,” he said.

  • Marshanda Shares Her Experiences on How She Dealt with Bullying

    Marshanda Shares Her Experiences on How She Dealt with Bullying

    Bullying affects many kids, but it remains quite taboo to discuss. In this episode of Bincang Inspiratif our host Susan Tanugraha discusses this important topic with popular Indonesian artist Andriani Marshanda, better known as Marshanda.

    She discusses her personal experience of being bullied, how to spot it, and how it impacts the victims.

    This episode covers:
    1. Raising awareness towards bullying
    2. Effects on victims of bullying
    3. Cyberbullying in the digital age
    4. How to protect your kids from bullying

    Raising Awareness of Bullying

    There are many incidents of bullying around us that go unnoticed by both the victim and the perpetrator. This is due to a lack of awareness of bullying behavior around us. Oftentimes, people dismiss bullying behavior as something trivial.

    Therefore, bullying became normalized and can even be considered as being friendly, or a way to lighten up the mood. In this case, it’s important to educate people and increase awareness of what is considered as bullying behavior and how to deal with it.

    Social Effects on Bullying Victims

    Marshanda shared her experience as a victim of bullying as a child, and how it had impacted her even into adulthood. She admits to being very introverted and having a hard time in social situations. This impact varies depending on a person’s mental condition and support in the surrounding environment.

    Marshanda also admits that it took a very long time until she felt comfortable in social situations or interactions. It was a long journey of educating herself with knowledge about bullying until she can share it with all of us in this episode of Bincang Inspiratif.

    Cyberbullying in the Digital Age

    Especially with the rise of social media today, it is easier for someone to hide behind anonymity. Practically anyone can be a victim and perpetrator of bullying in the digital age.

    We should be aware of how we behave online, and how to express opinions properly. Regarding this, Marshanda taught her eight-year-old daughter that hate comments often come from those who are unhappy in their lives, and are not a reflection of who we truly are. She hopes that knowing this, her daughter can protect herself from hate speech on the internet.

    How to Protect Ourselves from Bullying

    Marshanda also shares some tips for dealing with bullying around us. The first is to recognize the bullying behavior itself: when we feel uncomfortable with someone’s actions or words then it is bullying behavior and we have the right to protect ourselves. The second is to set boundaries for others and tell them if we cannot tolerate their actions.

    It is also important to educate and increase awareness about bullying not only to victims and perpetrators but also to parents and teachers. Because when bullying occurs in the educational environment, students will tend to look for someone from higher authorities like parents or teachers to protect them. We, as adults, have the responsibility to recognize when it happens and should not put the blame on the victims and side with the bully because of our lack of knowledge about the topic.